I was stuck in a building where the ground was collapsing. I was separated from loved ones. I was trying to go outside in the rain to find the car. The ground was soaked and looking like it would collapse wherever I stepped. Then I was in a home where kids were making me mad by spitting on me and dirtying things i was trying to clean. A huge window broke when a small dog was eating on top of the table and their bowl kept tapping the window during a storm. I screamed for help when a brown recluse spider jumped towards me in the kids room while I was cleaning a mirror. I screamed for curt to come help and told hailey not to move to protect her from being attacked by the spider. He never showed up. I didn't have my shoes on and couldn't find anything to kill the spider with. I left the room and went to get curt to help, when we got back to the room everything was out of place and I didn't know where the spider was it could be anywhere. It jumped and attacked curt, and I woke up.
This dream seems to be reflecting feelings of being overwhelmed and out of control in your waking life. The collapsing building with the soaked ground may symbolize instability and uncertainty in your circumstances. Being separated from loved ones may represent a fear of losing connections or support.
The situation with the children spitting on you and dirtying things you were trying to clean may signify feelings of frustration or powerlessness in dealing with disruptive or disrespectful behavior from others.
The broken window during a storm could indicate a sense of vulnerability or exposure to outside influences or threats. The presence of the brown recluse spider in the dream often represents hidden dangers, fears, or anxieties.
Calling for help from Curt and wanting to protect Hailey suggests a desire for assistance and protection in facing challenges. However, the lack of response from Curt and the spider ultimately attacking him may suggest feelings of abandonment or betrayal by someone you rely on for support.
Overall, this dream could be highlighting your fears and anxieties about losing control, being overwhelmed by stressors, facing hidden dangers, and feeling unsupported in dealing with difficult situations. It may be helpful to reflect on these themes and consider what underlying issues or stressors in your waking life could be contributing to these unsettling dream scenarios.